Friday, July 26, 2013

friends.

I think sometimes we get so burdened by the secrets our friendships share or the duration of a friendship that we refuse to admit when the importance of them dwindles down to a mere nothing.  I think we forget the meaning of friendship.  According to the dictionary, friendship means, " a relationship between two people who hold mutual affection for each other." 

Friends are not supposed to tear each other down, make each other feel inferior or be opportunistic.  

I have been guilty of making excuses for people as they put me on the back burner in their life which would be fine if they expected the same thing to happen to them eventually. 

Well, no more.


Who really knows?

There will be times in a person's life where they reach crossroads and need to make a decision.  They can go with the logical one or the emotional one, the mature one or the immature one, the selfish one or the selfless one.  For most people, the big decisions will not be easy.

However, for me, big decisions are the easiest to make even if they are the hardest to do.  I'm a fifth-year senior at a university that I waited until the last moment to apply to because I knew that I would get in.  I came to the university as a confused, naive sixteen year old.  Five years and four major changes later, I finally know what I want to do.  Following a PA around made me realize that this was the job for me.  If I could work as a PA everyday for the rest of my life from 8 am to 5 pm, I would be a happy person.  That decision took research, jobs, and a lot of thinking.

Sometimes however, thinking cannot solve everything. sometimes you just have to go with the flow. there will always be people around you that doubt what you do, who you do it with, and when you do it.

Matters of the heart can not be solved with the head or research into the matter.  I see so many people, getting married and having babies, but people doubt them because we're still "young".  I had no idea that love had an age limit. I'm happy for those people because they knew what they wanted and they went for it.  Why do we get an education anyways? Why do we try to land a big-boy or big-girl job that pays well? If I'm not mistaken, it all has to do with biology so that one day, when we choose to reproduce, we can provide the best life for them.  So, in the end, it seems like maybe it is all about love, but who really knows?










Decisions, decisions...